首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
According to the passage, what were parents usually expected to provide for their children?
According to the passage, what were parents usually expected to provide for their children?
admin
2009-06-24
68
问题
According to the passage, what were parents usually expected to provide for their children?
No notions of family democracy or children’s liberation troubled Edwardian parents. An unwritten contract operated, much like that between master and servant. Parents provided food, clothing and shelter as best they could: in return, child owed respect and unquestioning obedience until they set up homes of their own. Parents of all classes equally demanded respect. A London packing-case maker recalled that he wanted his children to behave "in a deferential sort of a way, you know. We’ve got to be respected", and a Nottingham man put a typical view. "They were your father and mother you respected them as mother and father, aye".
Although providing for the family was primarily the parents’ job, they did not consider it wrong, in hard times, to ask the children to help. Many children did not need to be asked, but found their own pennies in the many ways then open to them before they left school: catching rats for two pence each, selling postcards at the Liverpool docks at a penny for six, running errands, scrubbing steps, minding babies. At 13 or 14 these children would expect to hand over their first full-time earnings to their parents.
Decency, respectability and cleanliness—these, with honesty, were the virtues most parents tried to inculcate was their part of the contract. There was not much time and energy, even given the inclination, to provide more spiritual frills. That was left to the Sunday school teachers and, to a lesser extent, the elementary school. Middle-class parents were not such solid supporters of Sunday school. They preferred to give their children religious instruction themselves, and their larger houses and their servants gave them more respite from their children’s company—one of the uses of Sunday school was to give parents a little privacy on Sunday afternoons.
How far was affection considered a parental duty? The relationship between a parent and a sick child would usually be tender. Much loves and care was devoted to children in those days before antibiotics, when children illnesses could be very serious—diphtheria was still common—and careful, patient nursing was something all parents could give.
When mothers of none of more children had to work full-time as well, a great deal of work fell on their daughters, particularly the older ones. Unlike their brothers, who although they worked hard at getting money often had the fun and companionship of other boys, these girls working closely with their mothers had no time to go out and felt particularly deprived. And when the mother felt that the father was not helping enough financially, perhaps spending his money in the pub, her resentment shut her off from her children. And yet too many children and too little money and time cannot have been the only factors inhibiting the flow of affection from mother to child. In families of three children or fewer, and in well-to-do families, some parents are also remembered as reserved and unapproachable, sometimes going so far as to repulse a caress or hug.
So universally effective was the belief that children should respect and obey parents that many children remember being given corporal punishment only once. A significant minority, mainly in rural families, recall childhood free from any punishment at all. But the absence of resort to punishment was not permissiveness. Obedience was enforced while the child remained under the parental roof. With certain exceptions, girls were expected to be home by 10 o’clock and some parents insisted on earlier hours. Courting boy friends were expected to leave at the time decreed and to bring the girl friend back to her parents in time.
One elderly woman, Mrs. Hailsell, remembers how her usually mild father reacted when at the age of 17 she came in from the pictures half an hour after her regulation 9 o’clock curfew. "’I’ll give you 10 o’clock at night! Get up those stairs—you go out no more this week’. And I was so surprised when he hit me with his slipper that I turned round and got another one".
Sons might be allowed a little more freedom but their fathers should usually ask when they expected to be in.
For some brought up in this period the habits of filial duty lasted for the whole of their lifetime.
选项
答案
caress or hug
解析
转载请注明原文地址:https://www.kaotiyun.com/show/KGHd777K
本试题收录于:
公共英语五级笔试题库公共英语(PETS)分类
0
公共英语五级笔试
公共英语(PETS)
相关试题推荐
AttentiontotheDetails1.Attentiontodetailissomethingeveryonecanandshoulddo—especiallyinatightjobmarket.B
MedicalJournalsMedicaljournalsarepublicationsthatreportmedicalinformationtophysiciansandotherhealthprofession
Anewsystemofqualitycontrolwasbroughtintoovercomethedefectsinthefirm’sproducts.
TheFamilyThestructureofafamilytakesdifferentformsaroundthewordandeveninthesamesociety.Thefamily’sformc
A.theirworkforceB.hugeportionsC.largequantitiesD.theirmoneyE.agoodbargingF.minorbrandsSomefoodproducersha
FightingforaBrighterFutureforWomenWhenIwasaskedwhatitmeanstobeawomanrunningforpresident
Thedoctorsperformedaheartoperationthatwasamiracleofmedicalskill.
ThepoetWilliamCarlosWilliamswasaNewJerseyphysician.
Thepurposeofinsuranceisto______.Whatadvantagewilltherebeifonebuyslifeinsuranceinsteadofmakingotherinvestme
Childrenwhogriptheirpenstooclosetothewritingpointarelikelytobeatadisadvantageinexaminations,(31)tothefirs
随机试题
关于瘫痪的叙述哪项是错误的
乙借甲5000元钱,现已到期,乙没有足够的钱偿还,但丙还欠乙6000元钱,也已经到期,乙认为这笔钱即使丙还了自己也是要给甲,不如不要,所以一直不向丙请求偿还,现甲起诉至法院,要求丙偿还乙的债务,那么:()
金融中介的作用有哪些?
简述夸美纽斯的教育观点。
由于科技进步,现代生活中总会不断出现让人“不明觉厉”的新设备、新软件,大大提高了工作效率和生活乐趣,从而被冠以“黑科技”的称呼。下列属于“科幻变现实,颠覆生活的黑科技”的是()。
把道德说成圣人立法,在很大程度上背离道德。正如恩格斯所说的“没有爱情的婚姻是不道德的”中的不道德,恰恰是封建伦理中极力宣扬的“道德”。而这种所谓道德的阶级性,这种成为意识形态的道德,只不过是伪道德,并不能证明道德在不同的阶级那里有不同的性质。从以上文字推测
甲、乙为朋友。乙出国前,将自己的借记卡(背面写有密码)交甲保管。后甲持卡购物,将卡中1.3万元用完。乙回国后发现卡里没钱,便问甲是否用过此卡,甲否认。关于甲的行为性质,下列选项正确的是
“四顾何茫茫,东风摇百草”“盈盈一水间,脉脉不得语”这些诗句都写得情景难分,情意委婉缠绵。它们出自于()。
在公有派生时,派生类中定义的成员函数只能访问原基类的()。
A、Enjoyedthewineanddeliciousfoods.B、Listenedtothestoriesoffriends.C、Sataloneandwaitedsomeonetocomeup.D、Talke
最新回复
(
0
)