首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
According to the passage, what were parents usually expected to provide for their children?
According to the passage, what were parents usually expected to provide for their children?
admin
2009-06-24
84
问题
According to the passage, what were parents usually expected to provide for their children?
No notions of family democracy or children’s liberation troubled Edwardian parents. An unwritten contract operated, much like that between master and servant. Parents provided food, clothing and shelter as best they could: in return, child owed respect and unquestioning obedience until they set up homes of their own. Parents of all classes equally demanded respect. A London packing-case maker recalled that he wanted his children to behave "in a deferential sort of a way, you know. We’ve got to be respected", and a Nottingham man put a typical view. "They were your father and mother you respected them as mother and father, aye".
Although providing for the family was primarily the parents’ job, they did not consider it wrong, in hard times, to ask the children to help. Many children did not need to be asked, but found their own pennies in the many ways then open to them before they left school: catching rats for two pence each, selling postcards at the Liverpool docks at a penny for six, running errands, scrubbing steps, minding babies. At 13 or 14 these children would expect to hand over their first full-time earnings to their parents.
Decency, respectability and cleanliness—these, with honesty, were the virtues most parents tried to inculcate was their part of the contract. There was not much time and energy, even given the inclination, to provide more spiritual frills. That was left to the Sunday school teachers and, to a lesser extent, the elementary school. Middle-class parents were not such solid supporters of Sunday school. They preferred to give their children religious instruction themselves, and their larger houses and their servants gave them more respite from their children’s company—one of the uses of Sunday school was to give parents a little privacy on Sunday afternoons.
How far was affection considered a parental duty? The relationship between a parent and a sick child would usually be tender. Much loves and care was devoted to children in those days before antibiotics, when children illnesses could be very serious—diphtheria was still common—and careful, patient nursing was something all parents could give.
When mothers of none of more children had to work full-time as well, a great deal of work fell on their daughters, particularly the older ones. Unlike their brothers, who although they worked hard at getting money often had the fun and companionship of other boys, these girls working closely with their mothers had no time to go out and felt particularly deprived. And when the mother felt that the father was not helping enough financially, perhaps spending his money in the pub, her resentment shut her off from her children. And yet too many children and too little money and time cannot have been the only factors inhibiting the flow of affection from mother to child. In families of three children or fewer, and in well-to-do families, some parents are also remembered as reserved and unapproachable, sometimes going so far as to repulse a caress or hug.
So universally effective was the belief that children should respect and obey parents that many children remember being given corporal punishment only once. A significant minority, mainly in rural families, recall childhood free from any punishment at all. But the absence of resort to punishment was not permissiveness. Obedience was enforced while the child remained under the parental roof. With certain exceptions, girls were expected to be home by 10 o’clock and some parents insisted on earlier hours. Courting boy friends were expected to leave at the time decreed and to bring the girl friend back to her parents in time.
One elderly woman, Mrs. Hailsell, remembers how her usually mild father reacted when at the age of 17 she came in from the pictures half an hour after her regulation 9 o’clock curfew. "’I’ll give you 10 o’clock at night! Get up those stairs—you go out no more this week’. And I was so surprised when he hit me with his slipper that I turned round and got another one".
Sons might be allowed a little more freedom but their fathers should usually ask when they expected to be in.
For some brought up in this period the habits of filial duty lasted for the whole of their lifetime.
选项
答案
caress or hug
解析
转载请注明原文地址:https://www.kaotiyun.com/show/KGHd777K
本试题收录于:
公共英语五级笔试题库公共英语(PETS)分类
0
公共英语五级笔试
公共英语(PETS)
相关试题推荐
Peoplethinkingabouttheoriginoflanguageforthefirsttimeusuallyarriveattheconclusionthatitdevelopedgraduallyas
A.tofindjobsB.todolow-skilljobsC.tofeeditspeopleD.tohandledisputesE.tomakeaprofit
StormsSinkShipsRescuershavefoundthebodiesofover130peoplekilledintwoferrydisastersinBangladesh.Theacciden
MedicalJournalsMedicaljournalsarepublicationsthatreportmedicalinformationtophysiciansandotherhealthprofession
ThisisnottypicalofEnglish,butisafeatureoftheChineselanguage.
MedicalJournalsMedicaljournalsarepublicationsthatreportmedicalinformationtophysiciansandotherhealthprofession
Japanhasalongtradingtradition.TheSovietUnionwasacapitalistcountry.
Theword"mirror"inthefirstlinecouldbebestreplacedbyWhathasAlthouseBusTransportationbeenmainlyaimingat?
Fromhervantagepointshewatchedthemaindoorsswingopenandthefirstarrivalspourin.Thosewhohadbeenattheheadoft
随机试题
维生素A严重缺乏,可影响人
一青年男子,4小时前从4米高处坠下,继而出现恶心,呕吐,剧烈腹痛,被抬入诊室,体检:患者腹肌紧张,压痛,反跳痛,均阳性,此时最适宜的辅助检查是
香连化滞丸的功能是
对认股权和债券分离交易的可转换公司债券,认股权持有人到期没有行权的,发行企业应在认股权到期时,将原计入其他权益工具的部分转入营业外收入。()(2012年)
如图所示,不计电阻的光滑平行金属导轨长s=2m,两导轨间距L=0.75m,导轨倾角为30°,导轨上端ab,下端cd各接一定值电阻R1、R2,R1=R2=3.0Ω,磁感应强度B=0.8T的匀强磁场垂直轨道平面向上,阻值r=0.5Ω,质量m=0.2kg的金属棒
高中生钱某于1980年9月2日出生。1998年6月1日在校将同学李某打伤,致其花去医药费2000元。钱某毕业后进入一家炼钢厂工作。1999年2月,李某起诉要求钱某赔偿医药费。该民事责任应由谁承担?()
鸟笼逻辑源自这样一个故事:挂一个漂亮的鸟笼在房间里最显眼的地方,过不了几天,主人一定会把鸟笼扔掉,或者买一只鸟回来放在鸟笼里。这种被别人用习惯思维的逻辑推理误解,并且最终屈服于强大的惯性思维的事情,生活中并不少见。根据上述定义,下列选项体现鸟笼逻
“蒙太奇”是法文montage的音译,原为建筑学术语,借用到电影中意为()。
满足音频流与视频流唇同步的偏移范围是()。
【S1】【S4】
最新回复
(
0
)