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  3. Shyness is the cause of much unhappiness for a great many people. Shy people are anxious and selfconscious; that is, they are e

Shyness is the cause of much unhappiness for a great many people. Shy people are anxious and selfconscious; that is, they are e

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问题     Shyness is the cause of much unhappiness for a great many people. Shy people are anxious and selfconscious;  that is, they are excessively concerned with their own appearance and actions. Worrisome thoughts axe constantly occurring in their minds: What kind of impression am I making? Do they like me? Do I sound stupid? Am I wearing unattractive clothes?
    It is obvious that such uncomfortable feelings must affect people adversely. A person’s self-concept is reflected in the way he or she behaves, and the way a person behaves affects other people’s reactions. In general, the way people think about themselves has a profound effect on all areas of their lives.
    Shy people, having low self-esteem, are. likely to be passive and easily influenced by others. They need reassurance that they are doing "the right thing". Shy people are very sensitive to criticism; they feel it confirms their inferiority. They also find it difficult to be pleased by compliments because they believe they are unworthy,  of praise. A shy person may respond to a compliment with a statement like this one: "You’re just saying that to make me feel good. I know it’s not true." It is clear that, while self awareness is a healthy quality, overdoing it is harmful.
    Can shyness be completely eliminated, or at least reduced? Fortunately, people can overcome shyness with determined and patient effort in building self-confidence. Since shyness goes hand in hand with lack of self-esteem, it is important for people to accept their weaknesses as well as their strengths. For example, most people would like to he "A" students in every subject. It is not fair for them to label themselves inferior because they have difficulty in some areas. People’s expectations of themselves must be realistic. Living on the impossible leads to a sense of inadequacy.
    Each one of us is a unique, worthwhile individual. We are interested in our own personal ways. The better we understand ourselves, the easier it becomes to live up to our full potential. Let’s not allow shyness  to block our chances for a rich and fulfilling life.
What is the shy people’s reaction to compliment?
选项 A、They are pleased by it.
B、They feel it is not true.
C、They are very sensitive to it.
D、They feel it confirms their inferiority.
答案B
解析 细节题。本题问的是：害羞的人对赞美有怎样的反应?依据文章第3段倒数第2句“A shy person may respond to a compliment with a statement like this one：‘You’re just saying that to make me feel good．I know it’s not true’”可知，害羞的人认为别人对他的赞美不是真的，而仅仅是为了让他感觉好受一点。故选B。
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